Havenwood Counselling
Inner Direction. Outer Change.
Experiential Clinical Counselling Services
In Person in Duncan BC
Virtually Across Canada
Adult Clinical Counselling Services
Youth Clinical Counselling Services
Experiential Therapy is a good fit if
you feel stuck in emotional patterns that talking alone hasn’t changed
you want to understand the deeper emotional roots of stress, anxiety, or reactivity
you are open to working directly with emotional experience
are interested in meaningful and lasting change rather than short-term symptom management
This work helps with symptoms of:
Anxiety
Depression
Grief
Anger
Distress/Anguish
Post-Traumatic Stress
Acute Stress Disorder
Adverse Childhood Experiences or Early life trauma
Intrusive Thoughts
Life changes
Relationship Problems
Trauma
Abuse
Hopelessness
Distress
We aren't meant to carry everything alone.
Meet Rubeena
I am glad you are here. Reaching out is a powerful choice to interrupt old patterns—and make space for something different.
I specialize in experiential trauma therapy because lasting change rarely comes from insight alone.
My work is grounded in contemporary neuroscience and guided by a simple belief: we all have the capacity for creating our own, lasting, transformational change.
Therapy doesn't create that capacity—it helps you access it.
Together, we'll uncover the deeper patterns that no longer serve you, understand how they came to be, and transform them, loosen their grip, or create new ways of responding that better reflect who you are today.
The goal isn't simply to feel better in therapy, but to create meaningful change that extends into your relationships, your thoughts, responses, actions, and your everyday life.
Call to Action
Begin with a free 20-minute consultation.
This conversation gives you a chance to see whether the work feels like a good fit and to answer any questions you may have.
Havenwood’s Professional Ethical & Commitment. We follow the ethical guidelines of the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC) and adhere to all privacy and confidentiality standards, including the Personal Information Protection Act (PIPA), to protect your sensitive information and ensure your trust in our work together.
Havenwood acknowledges with deep respect that we practice on the unceded and ancestral territories of the Coast Salish Peoples. Our downtown Duncan location rests on the traditional lands of the Quw’utsun (Cowichan) peoples, whose enduring relationship with this land continues to guide and shape its life.
Our Sahtlam location, nestled in the forested hills west of the city, lies within the broader territories of the Quw’utsun, and neighboring Nations including the Ts’uubaa-asatx, Halalt, Stz’uminus, Penelakut, Lyackson, and Malahat peoples. We recognize that this land was never ceded, and that colonization—including displacement, residential schools, and ongoing systemic harms—continues to affect Indigenous communities.
Havenwood honours and affirms the dignity, identities, and lived experiences of all people, including those who are Two-Spirit, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, Queer, Intersex, Asexual, and beyond (LGBTQIA2S+). We recognize and respect each person’s right to self-identify and express their gender and sexuality freely and authentically. We are committed to creating a safe, welcoming, and affirming space where all individuals are valued and supported in their journeys of healing and growth.
Havenwood recognizes that healing often involves more than just the mind and emotions — it can include the spirit as well. These sessions create space for your personal spiritual or existential beliefs to be explored and supported, without judgment or agenda. Whether you draw from a specific religious tradition, nature-based practices, meditation, or simply a sense of meaning or connection beyond yourself, this approach honours your inner life as a vital part of your healing process.